About Him
How does one describe themselves? … it would depend on what characteristics the other person considers important, does it not?
So if genuinely interested, you are more than welcome to ask and find out more about me.
Myself, I would consider myself conservative and decent. Well that’s how I’ve been brought up and how I’ve lived.
University educated with a post grad degree, have a corporate job, own home, close family ties, socially well behaved, have not done drugs and without a criminal record.
I guess however the above doesn’t really matter in the context of this profile. What people would want to know is,
Yes I’m real and no this is not a scam.
I am easy on the eye, athletic, tall (5'9 ft), have a clean bill of health.
I don’t use brash languages, so while not snooty I still prefer refinement.
Yes, this is an offer to travel anywhere in the world,
I hope to find someone suitable, anywhere in SA, obviously we will need to meet and I will travel to meet you anywhere in SA if you are what I’m looking for. (If a couple, I would prefer the initial meeting with both husband and wife)
NB. Please no time wasters, scammers or women expecting me to pay for their time. That’s NOT what I want regardless of your age or looks or how good you may be.
This may be an impossible ask, but I do believe there are genuine, and decent couples / women out there, wives that desire an escape, and husbands that know their wives deserve this too and open to the idea of letting the wife be spoilt. Once we have met, I am an open book so you will know I’m genuine, but for obvious reasons this arrangement will be kept discreet. We can go separate ways after the trip if needed or could remain platonic friends with a fun little secret between us.
About His Ideal Match
(This may be the wrong site … but I don’t know where else I could place such a request – My hope is that this gets noticed and shared with the right people).
What I seek is something many may think is taboo, however read on before making judgments:
Yes, I would prefer to find a married woman to go on a travel adventure with. (ideally with her husband’s permission, however if you wish to and are sure you can do this without your husband's knowledge I am not here to judge).
I’ve worked hard and lived life righteously, and very grateful to be in the position I find myself today. With the means to travel almost anywhere I wish. I do feel the need to spoil myself and want to escape to someplace exotic, filled with luxury, fun and relaxation.
Being a single male however, traveling alone is not fun, so I just want a travel companion. I haven’t locked down a destination, date or duration, that’s something we do together. Plan will be to do this sometime next year – giving us time to meet, plan, arrange travel documents etc , and hopefully the world will be a healthier place by then too.
Yes, many single women here may be interested in this offer, however the reason I want a married woman is because single women get chased by many men.
I will generalize here so please don’t be offended, but It's easier for a single woman to simply go out with any guy she wants, be it for a fling or to date short term etc. Lots of men here are willing to do just that.
I want someone who will understand why I’m making this offer, and again generalizing but I do believe there are a lot of women that are married that deserve this kind of trip, but for whatever reason have put this off or will never be able to experience this. (maybe children, husband's career, or other pressures of life etc).
Now my ideal match:
A woman that has a desire / dream to travel and deserves this relaxing escape.
Someone well-kept, and neat, but easy going. Healthy and fit.
