In His Own Words
About Him
One common criticism people make about their partners is that they need to “grow up.” What many of us fail to recognize is that growing up is not merely a matter of acting like an adult. To truly grow up means recognizing and resolving early childhood traumas or losses, and then understanding how these events influence our current behaviors.
Therefore the ideal partner is willing to reflect on their past. They possess a maturity that comes from being emotionally emancipated from their family of origin. They have developed a strong sense of independence and autonomy, having made the psychological shift from boy to man or girl to woman. Having broken ties to old identities and patterns, this person is more available to their partner and the new family they have created, as oppose to the one in which they were born.
Because this partner has grown up, they are less likely to re-enact childhood experiences in an intimate relationship. Because they have evolved as a person, they aren’t looking for someone to compensate for shortcomings and weaknesses. They aren’t looking for someone to complete their incompleteness. Rather this person is looking for someone like themselves. They are looking for another adult with qualities similar to theirs, with whom they can share life in a compatible fashion.
About His Ideal Match
One common criticism people make about their partners is that they need to “grow up.” What many of us fail to recognize is that growing up is not merely a matter of acting like an adult. To truly grow up means recognizing and resolving early childhood traumas or losses, and then understanding how these events influence our current behaviors.
Therefore the ideal partner is willing to reflect on their past. They possess a maturity that comes from being emotionally emancipated from their family of origin. They have developed a strong sense of independence and autonomy, having made the psychological shift from boy to man or girl to woman. Having broken ties to old identities and patterns, this person is more available to their partner and the new family they have created, as oppose to the one in which they were born.
Because this partner has grown up, they are less likely to re-enact childhood experiences in an intimate relationship. Because they have evolved as a person, they aren’t looking for someone to compensate for shortcomings and weaknesses. They aren’t looking for someone to complete their incompleteness. Rather this person is looking for someone like themselves. They are looking for another adult with qualities similar to theirs, with whom they can share life in a compatible fashion.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
India | |
Location: |
Karjat (Badlapur), Maharashtra, India | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
31 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
Hindi | |
Other Languages: |
English; Tamil | |
Religion: |
Hindu | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
On Welfare/Benefits |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Maharashtra, India | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 24 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Gemini; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 166cm (5' 5.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian | ||
Home Language: |
English; Hindi | ||
Other Languages: |
English; Hindi | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Haven't completed high / secondary school; High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
On Welfare/Benefits; Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none; I have a visual impairment; I struggle with mobility |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Hope; Humility; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Opera; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
History; Mystery; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Cooking / Baking; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Horror; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Computer programming; Cooking; Gambling; Reading; Shopping; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Cycling; Running; Sky diving; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic; Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Shopping |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in an open relationship |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Power |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using SA Reunited IndianSingles: |
Hopeful |
